No relationship can exist without both ups and downs. Some succeed and a wedding is called for. A marriage is the same and some couples just end up divorced while others manage to get through in the long run. A marriage is a couple choosing one another for life and doing all that they can to help each other through life.
Watch out for these small details about your better half and you’ll know if you’ve married ‘the one’.
1. They Have Their Own Passions And They Encourage You To Do The Same
When you get married, it’s not about two becoming one. You’re both different individuals with your own goals and interest and if they are working towards their and not hampering your own efforts, your marriage is strong.
2. They Listen To You
No relationship can last if you don’t communicate with each other. Rather than making assumptions, a good spouse will listen to what you have to say and will offer understanding and support.
3. They Are Aware Of Your Goals And They Motivate You To Reach Them
An indication of unconditional love is when your spouse actively drives you towards achieving your own hopes and dreams. He makes you want to be a better person just by his existence.
4. They Can Balance Their Own Emotions
You’re in a strong relationship if he can handle his feelings and anxiety while giving you priority when you need it.
5. They Are There Comforting You When Things Go Wrong
Whenever something upsets you or makes you feel down, they are right by your side holding you and comforting you till you feel better.
6. They Work To Keep That Spark Alive
He/She really loves you when they are still flirting and doing all kinds of cute things to keep the spark in your relationship alive.
7. They Ensure That You’re A Part Of Their Big Choices
You are the first person they turn too when they have huge choices to make and they always pay attention to what you have to say.
8. They Like Hanging Out With You
For any marriage to make it in the long run, time and hard work are required. If your spouse likes hanging out with you and ensures that he sets aside time for you, he is willing to be in it for the long haul.
9. They Respect Their Mother
A man who is respectful towards his mother and takes good care of her will do the same for you.
10. They Find Ways To Compliment You
Even after years together, he’s always giving you compliments. He also knows that it is the little things in life that matter and he never just assumes that you’ll be around.
11. They Make You His Top Priority
For him, you come before he does and he never breaks his word when he gives it to you. He strives to be a better person for your sake.
12. They Are Open About The Way They Feel About You
Whenever you’re together, he tells you he loves you and makes you feel it through both his words and actions.
13. They Love Surprising You
No one can say no to a surprise night out, presents or holidays. When he does this for you, he loves seeing the joy on your face.
14. They Do Their Share Around The House
They know that you’re both equals in the relationship and they shoulder half the burden of living together.
15. They Apologize For Their Mistakes
Every relationship sees quarrels now and then but if your husband realizes when he’s made a mistake and he genuinely apologizes every time, he’s a great catch.
16. They Have Faith In You
they never feel the need to poke and prod into all the details of your life because they know that your love for each other is strong. And they come to you when they have something they need to talk about.
If your better half ticks off all these boxes, never let them go because they are perfect for you. Make sure that you treat them the way they treat you.